What my valued Clients say...

"Before working with Ken, I felt like I didn't want a healthy romantic relationship. The truth is (that we've uncovered through our work together) is that I was living in fear and resentment because of my past relationships with narcissistic partners. After working with Ken, I am feeling so much more sure of myself, I am more confident, and more equipped to handle any conflict or unhealthy situations that arise. I felt empowered to make the decision that was healthy and that served me the most. Ken helped me to recognize the fault and blame wasn't all on me, and how to navigate into attracting a healthy relationship instead, and know I was worthy and deserving of one.

 

If you are even the slightest bit curious about working with Ken, DO IT. I promise it will change your life, and he is the most empathetic and caring coach. He is extremely inclusive, open-minded, and helps reframe and shift my perspective on every hurdle I faced. I felt supported, heard, and held accountable every step of the way."

TIFFANY C

BRADLEY H

"Before working with Ken I was struggling to get over heartbreak and not putting guys I recently started dating on pedestals before getting to know them better and based on how they treated me, letting them earn being put on a pedestal.

After working with Ken, I am in a relationship with a secure man, I feel empowered, calm, re-focused on my strengths & weaknesses. I also appreciated that Ken's gay and can relate to gay dating life and helping to establish “baselines” of social norms amongst gay men who are dating and looking to establish long-term relationships.

 

I would highly recommend working with Ken to anyone who is questioning, searching for my insights into dating and relationship building with a goal in mind for finding a lifetime partner. a strategic approach to meeting and dating.

 

If you are even the slightest bit curious about working with Ken, DO IT. I promise it will change your life, and he is the most empathetic and caring coach. He is extremely inclusive, open-minded, and helps reframe and shift my perspective on every hurdle I faced. I felt supported, heard, and held accountable every step of the way."

"Before I worked with Ken, I was feeling aimless, I was single and had a lot of general anxiety.

 

Now, I'm in a relationship where I feel more confident in managing my anxiety, as I am made aware to look out for what causes me anxiety and how I can look at it from a different perspective, so as to manage it.

 

It was a joy having to be coached by ken, as he is empathetic, attentive, and dedicated. Ken has a knack for finding out what is the root cause of my issues, even when I am not sure of it myself, or was not able to express the idea of it clearly; with this, he works with me on how I can better manage the issues.

 

Furthermore, as Ken is so approachable, I have never felt worried about sharing what has been troubling me and what issues I have been facing; and he is always ready to listen.

 

Through the course, he has helped me to rethink and reshape my perspective on values and other notions, such as kindness, which I have struggled with a lot. Ken has also helped to shed light on what I want for myself and for me to work on them.

 

I have been through other counseling and therapy sessions, but I have never felt so supported and encouraged, as with Ken."

RYO M

ERIC F

"I was single for two years and struggled in dating. There was this guy I like a lot but he also got me really anxious with his actions and words.

 

I wanted Ken to teach me how I can win this guy over and build a lasting relationship with him. I feel so much better about myself and I also feel more in control of my date and how things are going with us. My overall happiness with my self-esteem has gone up as did my self-awareness. I am also now happily dating a guy that I like a lot and the feelings are mutual.

 

Thanks to Ken, I am now happily dating a guy who potentially could be the one. Initially, I had so much fear and anxiety about dating this guy that I like a lot. But with Ken's help, I was able to identify my relationship blindspots and break my self-sabotaging patterns.

 

He also taught me to ask constructive yet fun questions that create many positive memories with my date. After two months of coaching with Ken, I am so much more in control of my emotions and my date is responding very positively to me. Who knows, we may get together soon enough all thanks to Ken, Cupid in real life!"

"Before I worked with Ken, I was very hot and cold with people. I would want to get close with people, but just not too close. I would crave intimacy and push it away at the same time. And when I found someone who could satisfy this hot/cold part of my dating life, they would consume my world. I had a lack of confidence in myself, my abilities, and my appearance. I would seek out compliments and people whom I would repeat the same patterns again and again. I had no idea what a healthy relationship looked like, and quite honestly I had no idea what I wanted.

After completing Ken's course, I feel confident about myself and my appearance. And I feel confident that I can communicate my needs openly and securely. The conversations I have with people on dating apps and in-person are much better. I can openly and securely communicate my needs to someone, and not feel crushed when things don’t go exactly how I might want them to.

Ken has created something really special with this course. He tailors this experience to suit exactly what your needs are, and he knows how to get to the heart of what you’re facing to help you overcome it. I’m so different now than when I started this course.

 

I’m so much more confident, I know what I want, and I’m able to communicate my needs to others. My whole life has changed and I couldn’t be happier."

DAIMON S

ADAM B

"I’d just come out of a long-term relationship. I went into this hoping to gain an understanding of who I was and to improve my self-esteem and self-confidence for myself.

What we covered helped me feel good about myself and understand that I have everything I need and want inside me already!

Ken listens. He understands what you’re saying. This isn’t about helping you find the perfect person, it’s about learning that you are the perfect person for you! Right here, right now."

"I've thoroughly enjoyed working with Ken. As a gay man, it makes a world of a difference receiving this guidance, validation, esteem building, from another gay man who has been down this path. Ken brings with him an immediate ability to help you validate, soothe and work through your pain so you can move out of that space with the support one needs during a period like this.

 

The one-on-one coaching has been extremely helpful with concrete, actionable steps we've worked on together for me to execute, which have helped me stop my emotionally addictive cycles and behaviors, break the pattern, and catapult the emotional recovery from the heartache.

 

I'm much more emotionally stable, and not suffering constant daily/weekly emotional turbulence, pain, crippling anxiety, and self-doubt."

JON G

JOE W

Prior to a session with Ken, I felt like every interaction I had with a dating prospect left me with one of two extreme reactions:

1) either uninterested or

2) putting the other guy on a pedestal and feeling anxiously attached.

 

During our session, Ken pointed out that it seemed that a big problem was that I was not trusting my true wants and clearly expressly them, and he helped me identify my specific patterns of behavior that needed to be worked on (and I don't think I would have realized what these principles in the abstract, I needed to have him applying the principles to my situation specifically).

 

At first, I didn't quite understand how this would solve my problem, but I chose to put faith in his encouragement. Much to my delight and surprise, it turns out when you are clear about what you want and can communicate clearly, the vulnerability creates a vibe where the "boring" guys seem much more interesting and the "way too good" guys become more accessible! Ken is an enthusiastic, affirming coach, and I highly recommend working with him.

"I found the validation, guidance, and tools that Ken provided to be useful in working through the isolation and emotional struggle that come with being raised in a fiercely conservative and emotionally neglectful family. 

Ken has a fantastic ability to validate my emotions and pain, as well come up with practical solutions to minimize the exhaustion that comes with trying to influence things out of my control, and focus on factors of my life within my power, and help me move forward. I've also learnt some valuable tools that I can use to identify the people in my support network who can provide the support that I need. Additionally, Ken has helped me with how to seek it in a way that is approachable, respectful, and mindful another person's unique experiences.  

 

I would strongly encourage a person who is considering in investing in Ken to take the opportunity. I've received so much value from being listened to, validated, as well as the insights, tools and confidence that Ken provides to work past emotional turmoil and come out on the otherside more confident and equipped with strategies to move forward."

ALEX C

ZAK M

"I have been speaking with Ken for over a month now and I have never felt more confident and happy with where I currently am in terms of dating and meeting other guys. I was struggling with confidence and felt lost in many ways due to feeling alienated and different in my area Ken has given me the confidence to reach out and back myself to either make new gay friends or a romantic relationship.

 

Ken was able to give me insight into how he has navigated big decisions in his life which has then allowed me to overcome obstacles and personal struggles that I am facing. I am very pleased with how Ken has assisted me in reaching my goals and I am able to see tangible results which gives me more drive to keep going.

 

I would definitely recommend speaking to Ken and seeing for yourself the improvement that you will notice which will trickle into all other aspects of your life."

"I have been speaking with Ken for over a month now and I have never felt more confident and happy with where I currently am in terms of dating and meeting other guys. I was struggling with confidence and felt lost in many ways due to feeling alienated and different in my area Ken has given me the confidence to reach out and back myself to either make new gay friends or a romantic relationship.

 

Ken was able to give me insight into how he has navigated big decisions in his life which has then allowed me to overcome obstacles and personal struggles that I am facing. I am very pleased with how Ken has assisted me in reaching my goals and I am able to see tangible results which gives me more drive to keep going.

 

I would definitely recommend speaking to Ken and seeing for yourself the improvement that you will notice which will trickle into all other aspects of your life."

JACK M

DAVID A

"I started working with Ken 2 months ago. Back then I was feeling pretty bad, I was constantly thinking about my ex and I couldn't get rid of the memories (this was my big struggle).

 

We discussed some of the things I could do to make me feel better such as unfollowing my ex on social media, unfollowing mutual friends, deleting the pictures of me and my ex.  staying away from songs that reminded me of him and taking my ex off the pedestal. Ken also suggested journaling which was really helpful for me because it really helped me to organise all my thoughts and all of what was going on in my head.

But the most important thing that I learned from Ken is that it's ok not to be suddenly over my ex. Today, you can feel nothing for your ex, and then tomorrow you can miss them and it's totally ok even if you miss them for just one day. Just because you missed them one day does not mean that you lost all of the progress you have made and that you should never put pressure on yourself to get over someone quickly. Every healing process has its ups and downs and that's totally fine.


All I got to say about Ken is that he's understanding, kind, and really gets what you're going through. I see he is really passionate about all he does and I'd totally recommend him."

Before working with Ken, I was so lost in dating. I couldn't figure out why I was attracting men that were in many ways, unlike the other parts of my life. I kept attracting emotionally unavailable men. I wanted clarity on why that was the case. 

 

Working with Ken changed my perspective not only in dating, but my life as a whole. What started off as me approaching Ken to get dating advice, immediately turned into an inner reflection on my patterns of behavior, who I wanted to be and where I wanted to go. I now understand the importance of vocalizing my needs and setting boundaries in any relationship I'm in. These learnings go so far beyond just dating, and has already positively affected areas of my personal and professional life. Ken is an incredibly astute listener and I am so grateful to not only have worked with you, but gotten to know Ken as well. Thank you for everything.

JAIRUS K.